What are the ten commandments of dating

Are the brothers, sisters and parents the kind of people that will eventually feel to me like my own family?

There is absolutely nothing helpful or constructive about giving up.

Commandment #1: Stay in the Here and Now When dating it is very important to concentrate on the experience of being with the person.

You should not let your mind wander into thinking about past relationships, or future possibilities.

The dilemma is how can you tell if you are being wise and prudent or picky and selfish?

We therefore thought it might be helpful to suggest commandments for dating, and this chapter is our attempt to distill some of the concepts we have developed about relationships into useful guidelines.