Rules dating multiple girls
"The more nonchalant you act about a guy's other dates, the more secure and confident you'll feel about yourself, which in turn makes you more attractive to men," says Vogels.
Jasmine, 31, found that keeping her cool — and her sense of humor — allowed her to get through an awkward other-woman moment.
The next evening, I invited a group of friends out for drinks, including a guy I wanted to get to know better, and I flirted like mad with him and the babe bartender," she admits.
"The best thing about juggling is that you get to call the shots," says Vogels.
From the Luke Wilson look-alike at last night's bash to your hottie neighbor who inspires naughty thoughts to the hunky trainer at the gym, guys are coming out of the woodwork to ask you out. "The more men you date, the better your odds of finding your perfect match," confirms Jodie Gould, coauthor of Date Like a Man.
For some reason, you can't seem to find it in your heart to turn any of them down. Dating a slew of studs simultaneously does wonders for your ego, your social life and (duh! The ideal setup, she says, is to have "a pair and a spare," meaning you should keep at least three Romeos in rotation at once.
Whether it's chance, timing, an exact alignment of stars — hell, who cares what it is!
— you've found yourself on the receiving end of a man monsoon.