Push pull game dating
The other person enjoys the attention and gets lulled into a false sense of security.
They revel in the attention and feel special and valued.
One minute you're high on the warmth of their attention, the next minute you're frozen out and left wondering what happened. Many people think the push pull technique is a style of flirting where you can just memorize lines, but to effectively attract a girl through interest and disinterest, you must cater the style to the girl you are using it on, which means you must do some research or already have a good foundation of attraction - which you can learn from taking my Psychology of Attraction course.
Strangely enough, many women are great at the push pull technique without even trying, but because many guys come off desperate or needy, it takes some practice to even become adequate at this technique.
Of course some people thrive on this dynamic but the truth is that no one’s emotions can withstand this kind of emotional roller coaster indefinitely. emotions become frayed and insecurities become insurmountable.
We all like a bit of a challenge in a relationship but the classic push pull manouevre can become emotionally exhausting.
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