Proof that dating is haram in islam
If there was a physical aspect to her relationship, then these feelings of guilt are deeply accentuated and coupled with a total loss of self-respect.In the worst possible scenario, which is frequently happening, the girl, in an effort to improve her 'self image', may turn to various other ways...smoking, clubbing, drinking and drugs..she may embark on a series of flings just to make herself feel 'special' again.And let a party of the believers witness their punishment".[Surah An-Nur: 2] How can there be any long term happiness in a sin for which the punishment prescribed is so severe?And when they read romance novels, this theory is further reinforced - for, in the classic teen romance novel, the girl without a boyfriend, or "sweet sixteen and never been kissed" is the poor, laughing stock, who doesn't have a date to the "prom".And on the pages of a typical adult romance novel, the heroine is always a successful, beautiful career woman, but, she feels, that "something" is lacking in her life..that "something" is naturally a man.
Let not pity withhold you in their case, in a punishment prescribed by Allah, if you believe in Allah and the Last Day.
Many unmarried people these days search for "love" in a series of premarital relationships, which far from yielding happiness, lead to nothing but spiritual degeneration, loss of self-respect, heartache and misery.
When the average girl reaches the age of ten or eleven, she - sometimes with the knowledge of her parents, sometimes without their knowledge - becomes engrossed in and obsessed with the teen romance novel: a blonde, blue-eyed girl, with a perfect size 10 figure, falls in love with the football hero of the school, a few complications on the way (nothing major, of course), but things end happily after.
She might see someone at school, who is popular, and good-looking [i.e.
the football hero], and so begins her first painful crush, which is accompanied of course, by sending him anonymous 'Valentine's Day' cards, or calling him and playing songs over the phone.